non-binary people’s choice to use or reject binary language is personal, unique & does not have to be all or nothing.
non-binary people are allowed to use binary language to describe themselves, whether or not they are aligned with that binary gender.
non-binary people are allowed to have a complex relationship with self-descriptors & identifying language, and having an unconventional relationship with gendered language does not give anyone permission to misgender or mislabel them.
non-binary people’s relationship to language is unique, valid, and deserves respect.
